What should children do if they love to grab toys?

Many children like other people's toys. This is not, my mother took 4 years old Xiaoqiang to play downstairs, Xiaoqiang took the 3-year-old Xiaoya electric tiger. If you have toys that you don't play, but you are robbing others, what should parents do in the face of this "overbearing" behavior?

1. Calm and watch. Parents can watch calmly next to them, do not force interference, let the two sides solve themselves, try to leave some time for the children, they may find ways to resolve conflicts. If parents step in early, they deprive them of the opportunity to exercise social skills. If the solution is not resolved and the war escalates, parents can step in and try to protect the children who are attacked.

2. Let the child learn to empathize. Parents can suddenly grab his toys and play with themselves when they have fun, and tell the children: "I grabbed your toy, you are not happy. You grabbed other people's toys, what do people think?" The child experiences the negative emotions of being robbed and learns to empathize.

3. Help children understand the rules. When the child is calm, the parents should tell him that other people's things can't be grabbed. If you want to play, you can talk to others and get permission to play. Parents can agree with the child that if the toy is robbed once and the toy is confiscated, it will help the child to form a sense of rules.

4. Teach children the right way. If the child wants to play other people's toys, the parents can tell him a reasonable way: to guide him to learn to discuss with others, lend himself to play while the toy owner is resting; or let the child negotiate with the person to exchange toys so that one can play Two kinds of toys; you can also take out your own toys for everyone to play with, other children will be affected, and will take the initiative to come up with toys to share, so that children can better understand the joy of interpersonal interaction, help to improve social skills; or teach Children borrowed other people's toys to play home, but they can also lend their toys to the other side to play with them by mutual borrowing. But tell the children that they should be civilized and polite, and use words to impress each other, but not forced.

5. Seize the favorable opportunity of education. When children first grab toys, it is the best time for education. It is necessary to eliminate the bad behavior of the child to grab things in the bud, and prevent the formation of bad habits by strengthening many times.